It Really IS a Small World After All

moby-wrapOver the last few weeks, I’ve realized just how small the world really is.  Two weeks ago, while having coffee with a dear friend, we got to talking about home birth (well, I talk a lot about this lately).  She was asking me questions and we were talking about squatting for the birth and all kinds of stuff, when the couple in the booth next to us got up to pay their check.

Before they left the man said, “excuse me, we don’t mean to eavesdrop, but are you talking about home birth?”  Why yes.  “That’s so funny,” he said.  “My wife’s in labor right now.  We’re having the baby at  The Birth Center.”  Really, cool!  I had H at the birth center, two years ago.

My friend asked the wife a few more questions and while she was answering, she had a contraction and had to stop and sit down.  It was cool to see such a calm, collected mother just breathe through her contraction, and then when it was over, continue on with the conversation.  We wished them luck with their birth, and they left to walk the few blocks back to the center, I’m sure.

hot-moms-tshirtThen last week I was shopping Craigslist for a Moby Wrap for the new baby.  There was one on there for only $25, and I jumped on it.  I arranged to meet the lady to pick it up.  When I got to her house, she saw me get out of the car and asked “Hey, did you used to work for Tracy?”  Yes, at the birth center?  “Yes, remember me, I had my son there back when you were the receptionist!”  Too weird.

So, I guess it really is a small world, after all.  What are the odds?

I did buy the wrap, and I really like it so far.  Rick gave H a ride around the house in it on his back, and then H had to try it on himself.  It’s super long, so it’s wrapped around him umpteen times.  I might have to make him one of his own to carry his frog around in, while I carry the baby in mine.  🙂

There is a picture of Rick, H & I on the birth center’s website.  It was at the six week visit after H was born.  All the pictures on the site have captions with the parents’ and babies’ names on them, except ours… Ours just says :  “Hot Moms T-Shirt.”

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Honey-Do Weekends (part 1)

diaper-sprayer-sprayingI’m not sure what it is about being pregnant that makes you want to remodel your whole house, but whatever it is, I have it!  Last time, with H, Rick and I removed carpet and plywood to find the original hardwoods in our bedrooms, and then refinished them.  We also installed a sprinkler system in the front yard ourselves.   This time around, I’ve made an equally challenging Honey-Do list for Rick.

This weekend was the start of, what I’m sure will be a four or five week long, series of projects.  But, despite the rain on Friday and Saturday, we got a lot of the projects crossed off the list, or at the very least, started.   On Thursday, I began pulling weeds and crab-grass from the front flower beds.  The grass invasion was especially bad this year, so this was a big project.  I have five flower beds, and it took me about two hours to get half of the biggest one done.  Rick mowed the lawn and got most of the other beds done on Friday before it rained.   I just have the second half of that big bed left to do this week.

Saturday we went to Englewood’s first Farmers Market (it was small, but you have to start somewhere), and then to Home Depot to get the parts for the other projects on the To-Do list.  Rick got pieces to repair our back yard hose, and a new valve for the sprinkler system, as well as everything we needed for the Diaper Sprayer.  The guy in the plumbing department was really helpful, since we wanted to combine both the tutorials that we looked at.  We wanted that ball-valve, but we wanted to use connections that didn’t involve clamps.

We ended up with something that will be easily detached from the system when the new baby is out of diapers, but it did cost a bit more than we anticipated.  With tax et all, it came to about $32.  We used a gift card, so it was free to us though.  We figure that by the time you buy one online and have it shipped, we still came out about $18 ahead.  Here are the pictures (click for best view, the thumbnail too):

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The sprayer has great pressure, and the ball valve is already proving it’s worth, since Henry wants to spray the hose.  It took all of fifteen minutes to install… if that.  All we need now is a hook for the wall next to the toilet to hang the nosle on.  🙂

While at the Depot, we finally got two gallons of paint for our living room/dining room.  I’ve been dying to paint in there for over a year.  I did most of the painting yesterday, with another coat to go.  It should be done by the middle of this week, and then I’ll post before and after pictures.  Stay tuned!

Rick also patched several holes in the walls (some from nails, one from a hook, one from moving the thermostat, etc.) with plaster, so we could paint and hang new pictures and shelves.  He caulked around the front porch columns, and plans to get the final coat of paint on them this week as well.

Sunday morning, Rick and our neighbor, “Mr. Mitchell” as Henry calls him, set up H’s new Big Boy Bed.  H was literally jumping up and down with excitement over this event.  he couldn’t wait to see the bed, and helped me fold his new twin-size cowboy sheets.  Once the guys got the bed in, H just had to help with the assembly…

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The bed is BIG!  Compared to our little guy, it’s ginormous!  Once it was all built, Mr. Mitchell set him up on it and his eyes got so wide.  he couldn’t believe how high up he was!  I couldn’t either!

We really like this bed because of all the storage it has.  But it will be a while before H gets to sleep in it.  We need to get a few items for it first:  a side rail so he doesn’t fall out, a ladder so he can get up himself, and a waterproof mattress pad to protect the awesome mattress.  It is nicer than my and Rick’s mattress, and we are a little jealous!

As if that weren’t enough for the weekend, Rick also managed to get the garden roto-tilled so it will be ready to plant this week!  Hooray!  We’re about a third of the way done with the list, so stay tuned for more updates as we continue to fix up the house.  🙂

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Home Birth in a Commercial

I first saw this video on the Mindful Mama  forums.  I really like it, so I thought I’d share.  It’s a Spanish commercial for a mattress company.  Can you imagine this airing in the U.S.???  Oh how I wish it would.  It would really help people understand that birth can be a natural, loving, peaceful event! 

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Thrifty Thursday: DIY Diaper Sprayer

diaper-sprayer-sprayingWhen you first begin to use cloth diapers, (provided you breastfeed) your baby’s poo is very liquid, and doesn’t need to be flushed before washing the diaper. It just rinses right out in your washing machine with no mess or trouble. But after about six months, when you’ve began to introduce foods to your baby, you will eventually get a diaper with a sticky poo that just won’t come out without help. In the past, this would result in sticking your hand in the toilet to swish the diaper around until you liberate the diaper from it’s poopy mess.

Fortunately, there are people out there with the smarts to make sure there are alternatives to this reality. Someone invented the Diaper Sprayer.

A diaper sprayer attaches to the water supply on your toilet so you can conveniently spray the poo into the bowl, without getting your hands in the muck. These usually run about $40 and up, depending on where you get them.

I did not use a diaper sprayer with my first son’s diapering. I had not heard of one, and so I diligently stuck my hand in the toilet and was thus motivated to get my boy potty trained before he turned two! Yuck!

But, now I’m in the know. And while I think $40 is totally worth a sprayer, for the DIY crowd (I am one), there are less expensive alternatives! I found a blog with an awesome tutorial (which I see no need to replicate) with good pictures, so I wanted to share the link: Gidget Goes Home as well as a great YouTube instructional video on the subject.

In the video, the man recommends using a ball valve to shut off water to the sprayer when it’s not in use. I really liked this addition to the recommended tools/parts from Gidget’s blog since I think it will head off and potential for my toddler to use the sprayer to, shall we say, *clean* the bathroom by himself!

We ended up with something that will be easily detached from the system when the new baby is out of diapers. Here are the pictures (click for best view, the thumbnail too):

diaper-sprayer-parts

The sprayer has great pressure, and the ball valve is already proving it’s worth, since my toddler wants to spray the hose. It took all of fifteen minutes to install… if that. All we need now is a hook for the wall next to the toilet to hang the nosle on.

A copy of this post is on my birth/parenting blog:  SweetSprouts.wordpress.com

To see more of my Do-It-Yourself projects click the DIY category on the right.

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Sustainable Food Budget Challenge Wrap Up

susbudgetWow!  This challenge certainly has been an eye-opener for our family!  It has been a lot of fun for me, and good for us all. 

For the month, our total is $398.56. This includes the trip to the farmer’s market and a smoothie from Whole Foods Saturday, two trips to Chick-Fil-A (although Rick packs his lunch, he just can’t seem to keep away –it’s addicting!), and I took a friend to coffee at a local shop (but the coffee was only $2.50 for the both of us).  We count as a family of four, since I’m pregnant, but that is even under the family of 3 limit. We still have $64.44 (if we counted as three) to spend for the month, and that is good, since I know we will need milk, some greens, and some lunch stuff before the week’s over. But I don’t expect to surpass the limit. 

Crunchy Chicken didn’t have the success she expected on this challenge, and from the looks of the comments on her wrap up, neither did most of her readers, though most remained optimistic that it was possible.  One of the readers at Crunchy Chicken’s blog commented:

I admit, I find the “you can do it but we didn’t” message a little troubling in this particular challenge. Most people who have to live on food stamp budgets don’t really have the option of going over – if you hit the limits, you eat what’s in the pantry (or you don’t eat much) for the rest of the month.

I don’t mean to give you a hard time, but I guess asking people to live like they live on food stamps, to prove something to the people there, and then really disregarding the limits, while still asserting the validity of the challenge – “sure, you can do it” seems a little troubling to me.

There is so much truth there. We are not on food stamps, but our budget is such that we can NOT go over on our grocery budget each month. If we run out of money, we eat the rice in the back of the pantry.  We took the challenge quite seriously. 

I don’t know if this would actually be possible on food stamps because the majority of our savings came from food saved from the CSA last summer, the hog we bought whole last fall, things we saved our money up for so that we could have a year of sustainable eating on our tight budget. That and two years of practice at cutting the grocery bill each week a bit more, while still making fresh meals for my family.  Things like eating out, coffee shops, and convenience foods have not been in the budget for a long time (though, I’ve seen the Chick-Fil-A receipts creep in this month). 

Dollars wise, it does work.  But I don’t know that anyone raising a hog accepts food stamps for meat and processing (though they should if they don’t).

Bottom line… I enjoyed this challenge.  It got me thinking about ways that we could eat more sustainably, and even prompted discussion of not buying bananas (or at least not so many).  🙂  And it illustrated to my husband that we really do have a tight and good grocery budget.  I was even surprised that we spend less than what is alloted for food stamps. 

I was disappointed to see the results of so many unsuccessful at this challenge.  But I think to jump into this kind of lifestyle without practice or preparation is not really setting yourself up for success.  I was really pleased with the outcome our family had.  I greened up more of our purchases without going over our budget, made extra effort to get to the one farmer’s market that was open in April around here, and even crossed things off the grocery list that we’re there in the store, at a good price, but were not local. 

Can it be done?  Yes.  Does it take practice and preparation?  YES!  Should that keep you from trying it?  Please, no!  It’s a great feeling knowing where your food comes from, supporting local farmers, and saving money!

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Thrifty Thursday: Cloth Diapers

fuzziSo, as the number of days get smaller until I have this new baby, I am looking for some creative money saving tips for children.  For the next few weeks, I’ll be focusing my Thrifty Thursdays on kids.  This one may not be for everyone, but it is something that has saved our family hundreds, if not thousands of dollars.  Cloth Diapers. 

When I was pregnant with Henry, I never really considered cloth diapers seriously.  I pictured the lumpy, dumpy prefolds with pins and plastic pants.  They seemed messy and a lot of work, and well, frankly, I didn’t know sh… er, um, BEANS, about cloth diapers.

Thankfully, my friend, who had moved to Texas with her military husband (and was thus meeting new people with new ideas) sent me a list she had one of her new friends make for me of baby essentials.  On the list was Fuzzi Bunz cloth diapers.  I had to check them out. 

Fuzzi Bunz are really cool.  Like no cloth diaper I had ever seen before.  They are a pocket diaper, meaning they have a soft, cloth exterior with snaps that are waterproof, a fleece lining to wick moisture away from baby’s bum, and a pocket in between where you stuff an absorbent micro-terry (or hemp or whatever else you choose) insert to absorb the pee.  The idea of cloth diapering with these appealed to me.  I mean it is greener and they say kids potty train earlier.  And disposables stink and are expensive.  You put them on like a disposable, except with snaps instead of tape, and you just wash both the diaper and the insert in the washer.  Seemed easy. And, they come in fun colors (I’m a sucker for colorful things).

I stared doing research and found there are tons of alternative cloth diapers out there: Bumkins, Fuzzi Bunz, Bummis… there’s a long list actually.  Some are called All In Ones (AIO), some are pocket diapers like the Fuzi Bunz, and there are still some traditional pre-folds and plastic (or wool in some circles) covers.  There really aren’t pins any more though.

Cloth diapers are an investment.  Like buying meat in bulk or joining a CSA, the cost is upfront, but the saving over the lifetime is HUGE.  When we bought Henry’s Fuzzi Bunz were about $14 per diaper.  We did a lot of research to figure out what kind of cloth diaper we wanted to use, and where we could get them for the least amount of money.  The cheapest we’ve found them new is at fuzzibunzstore.com.  They have a registry. 

So we registered for a package called the “Everything You Need to Cloth Diaper Special” for about $385.  This included cloth wipes, detergent, two diaper pail liners, a wet bag (travel tote for dirty cloth diapers), and 18 Fuzzi Bunz with inserts.  There were a few other accessories in there too.. just can’t remember them all. 

We got a couple gift certificates at baby showers towards this, and Rick and I ponied up the rest.  We ordered 15 of our 18 diapers in size small, and three in size medium.  Then, when Henry moved up to mediums at 5 months old, we bought 18 more, used, on ebay for $10 each.  When he needed the larges at his first birthday, my mom bought half for us, and we bought the other half, all new.

In all, we spent $736.49 on diapering Henry from birth until potty training.  He still wears his size large Fuzzi Bunz to bed at night (with plenty of room to grow if needed).  But wait… we sold the size mediums.  I bought them for $10 each on ebay, and sold them for $10 each on Craigslist when Henry out grew them (I didn’t love the colors and decided if we had another baby, I’d get new mediums then). So I can deduct $180 from that.  So the total for diapering our first born is $556.49.

Now, I know that doesn’t factor in water usage in washing them and flushing the toilet a few extra times for the poopiest of diapers.  Yes, I’m sure our water bill is slightly higher due to running the machine a few more times a week.  But I can’t give an accurate picture of what that cost is, since the diaper washing started at the same time as all the newborn-spit-up-on-clothes-and-sheets-and-blankets washing did too.

But, for only $556.49 (which doesinclude detergent, since I bought special detergent from the FuzziBunzStore for the diapers only) I diapered not only Henry for two plus years, but I saved the size smalls and the larges (which, as mentioned, still get nightly use).  So those will carry over to the new baby. 

How many disposable diapers could you get for $560?  How long would they last you? 
On diapers.com (the site I understand to be the money saver in disposable diapers??) you can get a case of 4 Seventh Generation diapers for $43.99.  So if you bought them all at once, you’d get 12 cases.  Depending on the size of diaper, that’s 176 newborn diapers per case, or 104 size 5.  The price difference for Huggies and Pampers is with a dollar or two.  A newborn goes through about 8-12 diapers per day.  For easy math, I will say 10.  So one case will get you through 17.5 days. This does not include buying any wipes.

I’ll leave the exact math to you, but Mary McCarthy of NaturalFamilyOnline.com estimates that a child goes through 8,000 – 10,000 diaper changes before potty training. Based on an average cost of .35 per diaper (since no baby stays either a newborn or 20lbs forever), that comes to $2,800-$3,500 per child, not including wipes and trips to the store or sales tax if not bought online.  I’ve seen other averages as low as $1850 and as high as $4500 as well.  For one baby. 

Don’t even get me started on the environmental impacts of all of this. 

So what about the second baby?  Well, I need new wipes and a new wet bag (the wipes are so dead by now, you don’t even want to know).  And we need to buy the size mediums.  The price is a bit higher now than it was in 2006.  But I expect to sell all of my diapers for about $10/each after our second is potty trained.  I should have around 45 or 50 total diapers by then.  That will bring a big chunk of the investment back. 

All in all, cloth diapering is a very affordable choice.  And there are lots of options.  We chose Fuzzi Bunz because despite their higher initial investment cost , they had a high resale value as well.  The potential for recovery there was the greatest.  But if you are less worried about resale value, there are even more affordable cloth diapering options.  Check them out.  You might find a brand that is the perfect fit.

Look for more Thrifty Thursday tips with Katie Jean.

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Sustainable Food Budget Challege Update!

susbudgetSo has anyone been participating in the Sustainable Food Budget Challenge?  Here’s an update on how our family has done for the last two weeks.

The week of Easter, we did really well.  It helped that we were only hosting dessert for my mom and Manuel, and that they brought the carrot cake.  I did make a ham with an orange glaze, but the ham was from the hog we bought in November.  It was probably around 5 pounds, so it was pretty inexpensive.  That week we ate, Super Spaghetti (spaghetti with spinach, cheese and egg all added to the sauce), pork chops with summer squash & potatoes (veggies from the freezer), antelope steak with green beans and corn bread, tilapia with escarole and tomato pasta, leek, spinach & mushroom quiche, and that Friday we also had a pizza night with a couple of friends (I made sausage and mushroom pizza on whole wheat crust).  Rick also made some zucchini bread from frozen zucchini.

So, the grocery receipt was $69.02, plus the stuff from the freezer (squash, potatoes, onions, tomatoes, zucchini, ham and antelope).  It’s SO hard for me to estimate the cost of those stock-piled items.  We’ll put the pork at $2/pound.  So that’s $10.  The antelope… we paid $59 for the whole animal… I think there was about 40 pounds of meat total, so that’s $1.48/pound.  Including the left overs for Rick’s lunch, we probably ate about a pound, before cooking, give or take.  Also, $1.97 for the sausage for the pizza.  For the veggies, probably a pound of potatoes, two big tomatoes, a whole squash and 4 cups shredded zucchini.  Geeze.  I can’t remember what those seeds cost, or how to figure the cost of those in.  Maybe they’re freebies??? Is that cheating? 

Well, for the groceries and meat, my total for week two is about: $82.47
Week two’s sustainability?  Well, the meat is, of course, and the veggies from the freezer.  Rick went to the store that week, so I can’t testify to everything he bought.  But I know he got local milk and eggs, and probably about half the veggies he bought were organic.  We got sparkling lemonade as a treat for Easter, and that was made locally.  And the non-organic mushrooms were locally grown as well.  Otherwise, I think we’re not so sustainable on the juices, tilapia and pasta. 

For week three, we spent quite a bit more.  $92.76 at the store and another $4.76 at Chick-Fil-A (Rick just couldn’t resist, and I don’t blame him).  🙂  So, that’s $97.52.  We ate ham & egg fried rice (the ham was left over from Easter) with bok choy (not organic), Glorious Mac & Cheese (from Glorius One Pot Meals: it has tons of veggies), spinach & pinto bean salad with biscuits, and antelope chili.  Tonight we’re supposed to have pork scalopinni with mushrooms, tomorrow is tortilla soup with black beans, and Wednesday is supposed to be a spinach & cheddar omelet.  But I’ll probably nix the omelet, since we have lots of left over chili.  The only things coming from the freezer for week three is the pork for the scalopinni, pork from yesterday’s biscuits and gravy for breakfast, the antelope meat, and some corn and green chiles.  So that’s another $6.90.

Provided Rick doesn’t eat lunch out until Wednesday, week three’s total is $104.42.  Most everything made it into one sustainable category or another, except the pineapple, pasta, lemons, and cherry tomatoes I bought (I know… tomatoes!).  A vast improvement, but the bill was higher.  Though I did buy two boxes of cereal (we usually don’t eat cereal), and some snacky foods at Rick’s request.  So that contributed to the higher price as well. 

In week one, I originally reported us at spending $88.63, but we ended up with another $11 on misc. things (a trip to Einstein’s and I ran to Whole Foods for pizza dough and a bottle of Naked Juice on Friday, since the day got away from me and I didn’t make my dough ahead of time).  So that brings week one up to $99.63. 

For the month so far we’re at $286.52.  I expect two more trips to the store this month, though I might try to make just one instead if I can.  We’re still within budget, but as I shared on the first update from the Crunchy Chicken, I am finding the hardest part of the challenge is the sustainability part… I thought I had that down, but when I look at some of the things that end up in my cart, I am surprised.

I was really wanted to make the trek up to the Boulder Farmer’s market this past Saturday, but with all the snow, I chickened out.  Hopefully we can get up there this weekend, and nail the sustainability portion of this challenge in the last week.

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Thrifty Thursday: Seed Saving & Sharing

Let me start off by admitting: this week’s tip is not something I know a lot about.  But I do think it would be very, very Thrifty indeed.  Each year, Rick and I spend quite a bit on our garden.  We buy some things as small plants and transplant them (tomatoes and peppers, in particular).  Other things, we start ourselves from seeds. 

This is one fact I know for sure: seeds are WAY cheaper to buy than plants.  WAY WAY WAY cheaper.  For this reason, we try to plant as many things as possible from seed.  Each year, we’ve gotten a bit bolder in trying to plant this or that, starting earlier, saving left over seeds, etc. in order to cut the cost of the garden down even further. 

We have spent $28.37 on the garden so far this year.  All on seeds.  We had some seed left from previous years, but we still had to buy quite a lot.  Thankfully we had a gift certificate for this!  But regardless, it’s safe to say that even seeds aren’t free.  That is, unless you are harvesting them yourself. 

I do know you can’t save seed from hybrid plants.  But you can from heirloom and open-pollinated plants.  The trick is find seeds that are these two to plant instead of the hybrids.  🙂

One of my big garden goals this year is to harvest and save seeds from our plants this year to try to replant them next year.  I don’t know a lot about harvesting seeds, but I am learning.  Even with buying seeds and plants, home gardens are very affordable.  But this is just another way that we can cut a bit more of the cost.  

Last year, our dear friends shared some home-grown concord grapes with us.  I saved quite a few of the seeds before making the grapes into a pie.  I’m hoping for success at starting my own grapevine this year.  What a great way to get a new fruit of veggie into your own garden… seed sharing!   A gift from a friend that keeps on giving! 

Since I don’t know a lot about these subjects, I’m posting a few links that I’ve been using to educate myself. 

Seed Saving Basics
International Seed Saving Institute
The Growing Challenge: From Seed to Seed
Seedsofchange.com

Do you have any tips for me??  What have you done or tried that has and has not worked? 

Happy growing!

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